The Divorced Girl Smiling Podcast

What is a QDRO? Everything You Need to Know!

Do you know what a QDRO is and do you understand the process? My guest in this episode is Wade Griffin Jr., a divorce attorney and partner at Varghese Summersett, as well as a QDRO expert. Wade and I discuss everything QDRO related! Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/what-is-a-qdro-this-is-your-go-to-guide/

Things To Say in Mediation To Get a Really Good Outcome

What and how you say things in mediation can make a huge difference in the outcome. My guest in this episode is Divorce Mediator, Ellen Feldman, who offers tips that we hope will get you what you want in mediation! Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/what-to-say-in-mediation-to-have-a-positive-outcome/

How Much Is a Wife Entitled to in a Divorce?

Wondering what you are entitled to in a divorce? It's a complicated question, but divorce attorney, Anna Krolikowska offers some factors to consider, which will give you a better idea of what you might end up with. Learn more here:https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/how-much-is-a-wife-entitled-to-in-a-divorce/

The Hottest Topic in Divorce: Mortgage Loan Assumptions

Because interest rates continue to stay high, people are looking for other options than to refinance. Karla Kyte, Mortgage Lender, CDLP, and Divorce Mortgage Planner is my guest in the episode and guess what? She's got a GREAT option for you if you are trying to stay in your home but can't afford high interest rate payments. We are talking about mortgage loan assumptions and everything you need to know. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/the-hottest-topic-in-divorce-mortgage-loan-assumptions/

From Fine to Fabulous: 10 Tips to Get there!

When anyone asks how you are doing, you probably respond, "I'm fine." But why settle for fine if you can be fabulous? Divorce, Life and Relationship Coach, Michèle Heffron is my guest, and she offers 10 tips in getting from fine to fabulous. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/10-tips-to-transform-your-life-from-fine-to-fabulous/

9 Signs of a Destructive Relationship

Are you in a relationship and trying to decide whether or not to leave? Or, have you left, and you want validation that leaving was the right thing to do? My guest in this episode is Tracy Malone, an author and Narcissistic Abuse Coach, who offers 9 signs of a destructive relationship. Our discussion is aimed to help you recognize if you are in an unhealthy relationship, or that you were in one, and find a healthier, happier relationship next time around. 

10 Ways to Take the High Road in Divorce and How it Will Benefit YOU

Taking the high road can feel lonely, especially in divorce. My guest in this episode is divorce coach, Karen Covy, who offers 10 ways to take the high road. In addition, Karen and I discuss how taking the high road will not only benefit your kids tremendously, but will give you a better quality of life. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/why-taking-the-high-road-in-divorce-matters-and-10-ways-to-do-it/

Getting Divorced Because Your Spouse is Gay: One Woman's Story

Every divorce is unique, but all divorces are devastating and sad. But what happens when a couple is getting divorced because one of them is gay? Do the dynamics change? What's different and how are they feeling? My guest in this episode is Sally Srok, author of her book, "Bonus Round: A Gay Ex-Husband, a Divorce, and a Life Re-imagined." Sally tells her story and also offers tips to those who are in her same position. Learn more and get Sally's book here: https://www.sallysrok.com/

Running into Your Ex: Tips On How to Handle It

Running into your ex can feel traumatic and shocking and upsetting. Even if you knew he was going to be somewhere and you see him for the first time since you've been separated, it can stir emotions to the point of tears, anger and sadness. My guest in this episode is Therapist and Mediator, Julie Walton, LCPC, who offers tips on how to handle it--both right then and there, and then after. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/how-to-handle-yourself-when-running-into-your-ex/

Impulsive Decision Making in Divorce and the Ramifications

Making impulsive decisions during divorce can have a lot of negative outcomes. My guest in this episode is Dr. Ginny Wright, Certified Discernment Counselor and therapist, who offers advice on taking things slowly when it comes to divorce, and how discernment counseling can help do so. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/impulsive-decision-making-in-divorce-and-the-ramifications/