The Divorced Girl Smiling Podcast

Do you know what the difference is between getting a good divorce outcome and not getting one? PLANNING! My guest in this episode is Tracy Coenen, CPA, Forensic Accountant and the founder of the Divorce Money Guide. Tracy offers 6 steps to planning for your divorce--things you can do that will make the process easier and that will ultimately get you the outcome you want and deserve. Learn more: https://www.divorcemoneyguide.com/plan

To women going through a divorce or who are already divorced: Stop shaming yourself. Stop apologizing. Stop being mean to yourself! Stop criticizing yourself! My guest in this episode is financial advisor and divorced mom of 3, Joanne Litman. Jo and I talk about these things and more things you should stop doing if you want to be happy. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/stop-shaming-yourself-and-stop-apologizing-you-deserve-better/

What is resilience? Resilience is not about faking it till you make it or pretending everything is fine. It’s not about ignoring your feelings or using toxic positivity to cover up your pain. Instead, resilience is the ability to bounce back from challenges, adapt to difficulties, and stay flexible in how we think and respond. My guest in this episode is divorce coach, Mardi Winder-Adams. Wait till you hear her advice! Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/5-steps-to-building-resilience-during-divorce/

If you've never been through a divorce, it's not surprising not to be familiar with what marital assets are and what non-marital assets are. My guest in this episode is divorce attorney, Liz Felt Wakeman, who gives an explanation of each and offers tips and advice on the division of assets in a divorce. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/what-are-marital-assets-and-non-marital-assets-in-a-divorce/

Every divorce situation is unique, but one thing I can say that everyone getting divorced has in common: we all want the best possible outcome. My guests in this episode are Catherine Shanahan, CDFA and Karen Chellew, co-Founders of My Divorce Solution. Catherine and Karen talk about 4 common mistakes people going through a divorce make, and how to avoid making these mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/4-mistakes-when-getting-divorced-and-how-to-avoid-making-them/

Boundaries are so so so important when it comes to being happy and healthy in life. That includes the boundaries you set with your ex. My guest in this episode is divorce coach, Jenine Marie Powell, who offers an explanation on the types of boundaries you should think about setting, along with tips for setting them. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/setting-boundaries-in-relationships-especially-the-one-with-your-ex/

If you've never owned a home by yourself, finding, buying and maintaining one can feel stressful and scary. But it doesn't have to be! Real Estate Agent, Staci Yesner, who specializes in first time home buyers offers tips and advice that will make you feel excited instead of nervous. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/first-time-home-buyer-after-divorce/

Turns out, your parents were right. Life's not fair! It's especially not fair in divorce. My guest in this episode is divorce mediator, Leah Hadley, who talks about the concept of fairness in divorce, and offers tips on how to cope when you feel like screaming "this is unfair!" Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/lifes-not-fair-that-includes-your-divorce/

Although online dating is very popular, surveys indicate that more and more people have the desire to meet someone IRL (in real life.) My guest in this episode is dating coach, Alyssa Dineen. Alyssa offers 7 great ways to meet someone in person. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/do-you-have-dating-app-burnout-tips-for-meeting-people-offline/

Divorcing a controlling spouse can be incredibly difficult and draining. My guest in this episode is divorce attorney, Jason Tuchman, who offers some insight into why controlling spouses act the way the act in divorce, and how to handle the behavior. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/my-spouse-is-controlling-what-that-means-during-divorce/