The Divorced Girl Smiling Podcast

What is Discernment Counseling and Is It Right for You?

It's not new, but discernment counseling has gained a lot of popularity recently. The process of trying to figure out whether or not you should get divorced or try to work things out--that's what discernment counseling is, is discussed in this episode with my guest, Erin Birt, a Chicago based divorce attorney and mediator. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/what-is-discernment-counseling-and-is-it-right-for-you/

5 Money Mistakes Women Make in Divorce

Women going through a divorce are under so much stress, which can lead to poor financial decisions. My guest, Tracy Coenen is a forensic accountant and the creator of the Divorce Money Guide. In this episode, Tracy reveals the 5 biggest money mistakes she's seen women make, and offers advice on how to avoid them. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/5-money-mistakes-women-make-in-divorce/

Parenting Plans for Kids with Special Needs

Divorce is difficult for all children. But what happens when the children are neurodiverse? Divorce Mediator and Disability Informed Professional, Erik Feig is my guest on this episode, and he offers advice on what to think about when you're creating your parenting plan with neurodiverse children. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/erik-feig-mediator-founder-feig-mediation-group/

Everything You Want to Know about Divorce Coaches

When I was getting divorced in 2007, divorce coaching didn't exist. Now it is a huge industry! Why? What does a divorce coach do? How do you find a good one? These questions are answered by my guests, Debra Doak and Tracy Callahan, co-Founders of Divorce Coaches Academy, the company that trains and certifies divorce coaches. Learn more here: https://www.divorcecoachesacademy.com/ 

The Power of Using an Alcohol Monitoring Device

Are you worried about your ex spouse drinking alcohol during parenting time? Are you being accused of drinking during your parenting time? In this episode, my guest, Thy-An Tran, Director of Marketing for Soberlink talks about the solution: an alcohol monitoring device. Includes benefits and court involvement. Learn more and get $50 off your device: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/dgs

How Do You End a Marriage with Someone You Love?

How do you end a marriage with someone you love? Therapist, Brittany Baker, LCSW has advice. In this episode, we talk about preparing for the conversation, what you might want to say, and what NOT to say. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/how-to-end-a-marriage-with-someone-you-love/

Divorce and Your Body: There IS a Connection!

Divorce can take a toll on your emotional wellbeing, but it can also affect your physical health. In this episode, my wonderful guest, health concierge, Leslie Urbas offers an explanation on how divorce stress can take a toll on your body, and gives tips on having the body you want and being happy and healthy. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/leslie-urbas-health-concierge/

Feeling Abandoned Emotionally and/or Financially?

Are you feeling abandoned by your soon-to-be spouse, either emotionally and/or financially? If so, my guests, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew, Co-founders of My Divorce Solution, have some wonderful advice for you. We get into practical solutions, as well as managing your emotions during what feels like a really lonely, scary time. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/feeling-abandoned-in-a-relationship-emotionally-and-financially/

What To Do When Your Ex Isn't Sticking to a Court Order

There is nothing more frustrating in divorce than an ex who isn't complying with a court order! If this is you, we have some great advice in this episode. My guest is divorce attorney, Liz Felt Wakeman, and we will share some practical advice on what you can do in this situation. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/my-ex-is-not-sticking-to-a-court-order-what-to-do/

8 BAD Reasons to Get Divorced

Are you thinking about divorce or are you in the thick of it and wondering if you're doing the right thing? We'll give you some things to think about in this episode! My guest, Chicago divorce attorney, Tiffany Hughes and I talk about bad reasons to get divorced. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/8-bad-reasons-to-get-divorced/