The Divorced Girl Smiling Podcast

10 Tips for Negotiating Successfully in Mediation

If you have mediation coming up, or if you are in the process of mediation, this is a great episode for you! My guest is divorce mediator and negotiation coach, Melissa Wheeler Farag. Melissa offers 10 tips to help you negotiate successfully and walk away with a settlement you feel really good about. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/mediation-and-negotiation-10-tips-for-success/

How Healthy Co-parenting Can Truly Change Your Life for the Better

Co-parenting isn't always easy, especially if there's a lot of anger and resentment between parents. But we have some tips that could change your life! GREAT episode with my guest, divorce mediator, Michael Cohen, who went through a divorce and because of the litigious nature of it, dedicated his career to helping people co-parent in a healthier way. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/the-benefits-of-healthy-co-parenting/

2 Things That Will Change Your Life: Feeling Worthy and Focusing on Healing

Michèle Heffron has some life lessons in this episode--wisdom she obtained from her divorce experience that she wants to share with you! The first is: the importance of feeling worthy and the second is helping you find your healing journey. Learn more: https://micheleheffron.com/?p=2296

What to Expect When You're Expecting...Mediation

If you're newly separated (like I was several years ago) you probably don't know what divorce mediation is, or what goes on in the sessions. My guest in this episode is divorce mediator and parenting coordinator, Brian James. Brian and I offer insight on what to expect when you enter divorce mediation, and why we both think it's such a productive way to get divorced. Learn more: https://celandassociates.com/

When Your Spouse Doesn't Want (and Won't Acknowledge) the Divorce

What do you do if your spouse doesn't want a divorce? Even worse, what if he/she won't even acknowledge that the divorce is happening? Can you get divorced without the other person participating? My guest in this episode is divorce coach, Karen Covy, J.D. Karen offers advice for you if you are in this situation. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-a-divorce/

Understanding the Differences Between a Divorce/Life Coach and a Therapist

When people tell me they are going through a divorce, I always recommend they do two things: get into therapy and hire a divorce coach. Both are so beneficial but in very different ways. My guest in this episode is Juli Walton, LCPC and therapist, who explains what each one offers. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/understanding-the-difference-between-a-life-coach-and-therapist/

That Ring You Wore On Your Left Ring Finger: What Now?

My guest in this episode is Anne Gabel, the co-founder of MJ Gabel Diamond and Jewelry buyers, and the company I sold my wedding rings to! I love this episode because Anne and I talk about so many things related to your wedding rings, such as, who gets the rings by law? When is the right time to sell? What can you do with your rings? And, what a few women did with the money they got after selling their rings.  

Divorce and Real Estate: A Step-by-Step Guide

One of the most complicated and scary aspects of a divorce is deciding what's going to happen with your home. Are you going to buy your ex out and stay there? Are you going to sell the home? Are you going to buy a new home? My guest in this episode is realtor and CDRE (Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert) Shannon Lindstrom. Shannon offers a step-by-step guide on making the best decisions for you and your kids. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/divorce-and-real-estate-a-step-by-step-guide/

Divorce Loneliness: Reasons and Remedies

Loneliness is one of the most painful emotions someone can experience. My guest in this episode is Jenine Marie Powell, Circles Support Group facilitator and divorce coach. Jenine and I talk about what loneliness looks like and ways to feel less alone and isolated. Learn more and sign up for Circles here.

Does couples counseling work? Sometimes.

What is a mixed-agenda couple and how do they fair in couples counseling? My guest in this episode is therapist and discernment counselor, Dr. Ginny Wright, who explains. Wright also talks about the differences between couples and discernment counseling. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/does-couples-counseling-work-sometimes/